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Im wanting to finish my degree, if I defaulted on a school loan a few year's back when things where not good, does that stop me from getting back into school with some finacial assists?

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carmelapples1
 in response to bobo1...   Thanks for the repley.....However maybe im not clear on my situation.....He took my kids when they when to visit him for the summer an has not return them. ..I have been chasing him from state to state.....im going through what you would call a form of parental alienation...but im fighting back with petitions and a non-profit organization, so other will not have to go through with im going through.....pray for me in my journey.....THANKS!!
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bobo1

There is not much you can do , but pray. I know you don't want to hear this. What is left to do. u tried going to court and talking with them. Did you file for child support. He knows what he suppose to be doing. Me i would just take care of my kid or kids and try to get help from the govenment. Like food stamps if you need them. That's if you don't have a job. In the long run he will need the kids. Who knows he just might need you too. Keep the faith Girl , let God do his work. Take care love you.

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Aiden Is Loved

Hi My name is Michaela I am looking for someone who want's to help make my 3 year old son Christmas the best. Me and my hubby both have been unemployed for 5 month's and have no income at the moment. If it was not for my parents helping out we would have no Diapers, baby wipes and necessities. It would be so nice to give aiden and the rest of the family a good Christmas we have not had one in a long time. I am worried I may not be able to provide a nice Christmas or thanksgiving for my family and it hurts me as a mother . Life is so tough right now and I know it is for a lot of other people out there as well. I pray every night that God will send us a angel to help my family. We will take whatever you can give toilet paper,diapers,baby wipe's,toys,food,shampoo,close exc..! I am just so blessed to have found this site. My heart also goes out to all the other family's in need and that wont have food or a place to stay this Christmas I just want you all to know you are not alone. I understand how you all feel. I will keep you all in my prayers. I am a huge believer in the power of prayer. Please if you are interested in adopt my family for Christmas send me a message. God Bless Michaela

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shirleybill
 in response to carmelapples1...   

You are more than welcome. I will be looking forward to hearing from you again.

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carmelapples1
 in response to shirleybill...   

I will....I will update my status monthly too.....and thanks for the confidence..

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shirleybill
 in response to carmelapples1...   

Keep in touch, and let me know how you are doing. You have a great attitude, and i know you will make it.

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carmelapples1
 in response to shirleybill...   

Thanks so much........with God all things are possible......I still have a bumpy road ahead, but I have hope...and confidence....and will to survive...it may sound crazy...but im glad to have gone through this storm..it's made me so much stronger!!

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shirleybill
 in response to carmelapples1...   

So happy to know that you are doing better now.

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carmelapples1
 in response to shirleybill...   

I have a full time job now.....and I found a one bedroom place.....things are looking up now....yes I was running on nerves...but I didnt know how strong I was til my back was against the wall......no meds needed.....thanks for sharing

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shirleybill

First of all. You need to get a grip. You are running on nerves right now. I suggest you go to your doctor, and  let them give the the proper medication. Then find yourself a part time job.

In the meantime, go to Salvation Army, and get a room, it may be for one night, or they may allow you to stay for longer. 

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carmelapples1
 in response to tigerlily1973...   

you are so right and it is.....im not following them this time....even when its killing me not being with them...I most focus on getting me back together...I just wish things could be different...but people will always try to keep you down if you let them...

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carmelapples1
 in response to keeping my head up...   

thank you so much for those kind words, things are getting alittle better...or should I say look bright right now.....

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tigerlily1973

So terribly sorry you have to go through this terrible situation.  Try and keep the faith and keep your head up.  First thing I would do is try to get assistance from social services or hud or section 8 to help get you stabilized while looking for employment.  The second thing is look over your divorce contract.  My husband wasn't allowed to move my daughter out of the state we lived in without my written consent.  If he did, I would have to report it right away and he would get in trouble.  Also my contract states that I get so much time visitation and written correspondance and if he violated that he would get in trouble. And the last thing I found out from my horrible divorce is you have to go to court in the state the child is a resident of.  They have to be living there for 6 months to qualify as a resident.  So the next time he tries to up and move away from you , check your divorce papers and see if he's doing anything illegal.  Then check into a legal aid office where you live to have them stop him from moving.  If you keep following him all over the country because of the kids it will continue to ruin you finacially. 

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keeping my head up

I know things are hard for you right now but we have to keep the faith I know it is easier said than done Lord knows I do but we have to remember Jesus said that blessed are those that mourn(i just paraphrased that its in Matthew 5 I think I will look it up later) but anyway we are struggling now because God needs to know that he can count on us in the good and the bad and the bad and the bad just stay strong it wont be long now its time for God's people to prosper

you be blessed

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Joseph37

Keep your head up at all cost.  Eventually your kids are going to want to see their mother and he isn't going to be able to keep you away from them forever.  Try to get back on your feet first to help yourself.  By getting back on your feet, you'll be able to do whats necessary for your kids.  Be encourage lil sister.  Don't let anything keep you down.  Believe that you will overcome the situation instead of letting the situation overcome you.  J. Skip.

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